Why Nikolas Cassadine is not the right guy for Elizabeth!!!

Now I am not going to go on this huge long rant about Nikolas and my dislike for him, but I will go through the reasons to why Nikolas Cassadine isn’t the right choice for Elizabeth. Now all my data I will be providing you with if from 2003 to the present, with a little of 1997-1998/1999. Basically all the date is from when Tyler Christopher was in the role. Just so we get that cleaned up from the start.

Now let us take it back to 2003, Nikolas and Emily both arrive back in town and Emily get back together with her old boyfriend Zander. Nikolas falls for Emily, but Emily is taken. Then when she is actually married to Zander and in remission from her cancer her and Nikolas sleep together. Of course Zander went and slept with Elizabeth, but we are on to Nikolas. This isn’t the first time he’s done it either. Years later, after his marriage to Emily fall apart and they try to restart, things don’t work out. Nikolas ends up falling for… wait for it… a married woman. This woman being Courtney Jacks, letter it turned out her marriage to Jax or Jason wasn’t actually legal, really? After Courtney and Jax break up Nikolas and Courtney get cozy, oh wait Courtney also finds out she’s pregnant. She isn’t sure who the baby’s father is. After a long who’s the daddy storyline, it’s finally reveled that Nikolas is the baby’s father. That baby named Spencer Cassadine, after Nikolas’s mother’s family and his brother and sister, because he loves them so much. After Courtney’s death Nikolas is left raising Spencer all by himself, only for Emily to return back into his life. Everything almost seems like it’s perfect, they were going to get married again and live happily ever after. Only Emily’s killed and Nikolas has a brain tumor.

Nikolas claimed to love Emily too much he was willing to let the brain tumor kill him so he could be with her, then save himself to be with his son. After he finally lets go of Emily and saves himself, he ends up falling for nurse Nadine Crowell. Only for Emily twin sister to come to town, Nadine is forgotten about and Nikolas wants to play pretend you are Emily with me. Which leads to the kiss at Jakes with Elizabeth. He tries to be with Emily’s twin, but he now as some sort of feelings for Elizabeth, obsession really. After Emily’s twin leaves town, he starts hooking up with Elizabeth while she is with his brother Lucky and engaged to his brother. Elizabeth finds out she’s pregnant, Nikolas is claimed to be the father and Nikolas actually remembers he has a son, but he’ll do better this time around with their new baby. The baby isn’t really Nikolas’s that is found out later. Nikolas ends up hooking up with Brooklyn who’s he’s sister’s age that is a little creepy. Only to end up leaving town in the end. Now if he claims to love Elizabeth so much, who’s to stay he isn’t going to do to her what he did to Emily and Nadine? He cheated on Emily with Courtney, also slept with Emily while she was married to Zander. Slept with Courtney while she was married to Jax. Slept with Elizabeth while engaged to Lucky. There is this old saying, once a cheater always a cheater…. I wouldn’t trust that man in a committed relationship. (Though everything that happened after Emily’s death was all because he was grieving over Emily. He just couldn’t help things; it was all because of Emily’s death. Funny how that isn’t the excuse anymore.)

Not only all of the above, but he’s also a hypocritical, judgmental, holier than thou asshole. There are been more times he has told someone something and then gone back and did it himself like there was nothing wrong with it. So lets point out some things shall we?

2007 – Nikolas and Sam got into a fight, sure part of it was because Nikolas had an anger issues with was later found out to be the tumor in his brain. But he went and yelled at Sam saying “Lucky threw away his entire family because of you” because Lucky went and slept with Sam while still married to Elizabeth and then after they agreed to break up, Lucky chose to be with Sam. I’m sure there was some part of him that wanted to yell at her too. Not to mention he got all preachy on Sam about how she wasn’t helping matters when it came to Liz and Lucky’s marriage. How she needed to stay away so they can work things out.

Here is a great quote “You come on to Lucky, you get to have your fun, but Lucky he throws away his family for the second and last time. In the end he’s the one that’s sorry.” Nikolas says to Sam… funny sounds like what you did with Elizabeth. Nikolas got to sleep wit Elizabeth and have his fun wit Elizabeth, yet when the truth came out she lost Lucky and ended up in a mental hospital.

Some more great quote. Nikolas: Now you show up at Sam’s apartment ready to throw it all away. Lucky: Just stop passing judgment on me…. Yes Lucky he is passing judgment, and he is continuing to do it. Why because that is who is he. He thinks he’s better then anyone and gives advice but never takes his own.

“But who am I, I’m just your brother trying to keep you from ruining your life yet again.” Funny where was this guy when he was sleeping with his brothers girl?

“You go ahead, you spit on everything you have left, but when it’s all gone don’t come crying to me” yet you can go crying to everyone else when you’ve lost everything?

2005 – During the time Courtney and Nikolas were sleeping together. Nikolas and Lucky fought outside of Kelly after Lucky goes and starts trashing Courtney right in front of him. One quote that pops out is this one “Did it occurs to either one of you that lives would be ruined.” My dear Lucky it never occurs to Nikolas that what he does ruins lives. He just does what he does and takes what he wants.

Here is another great one “You're obsessed by another women” how right you are Lucky. That is what Nikolas relationship are now, they are just his obsessions. He doesn’t really care about these women; he is just obsessed with them and thinks he does.

2008 – Should I never go into how Nikolas wanted to stay with a figment of his imagination and then be with his son? How he didn’t want to live without Emily, yet he had a son alive and well ready to be with his father after all that kids first year of his life was being part of one family and then another. Yeah so much for that not being able to live with out Emily. He seems to be doing just fine now. Though it was a nice touch in 2009/2010 having everything Nikolas did because he was still grieving over Emily’s death. Emily died in 2007, and he’s still grieving? Give me a fucking break, no one grieves that not, not on a soap at least. Not to mention he didn’t seem to be grieving over Emily after his relationship with Nadine got deeper. He seemed to be doing just fine in life.

2010 – Now all of a sudden… well after a kiss a Jake’s and a few other kisses, plus some nights of horror, I mean sex, he’s in love with Elizabeth? Again give me a fucking break. The only love Nikolas feels for Elizabeth his love for a friend, since yet they have been friends for a very long time. Sure there is love at first sight, but again they have known each other forever and now after all these years he’s known he’s cared about her? Okay so there was this one time they kissed when Nikolas had a crush on her, but that was shut down. Honestly it was like a while after Lucky was believed to be killed in a fire. What is it with the deaths of people they love and Nikolas wanting to kiss and hook up with Elizabeth? I’m sorry not buying this whole he’s always been in love with Elizabeth. One that is a smack in the fast to just about every fandom Nikolas is a part of, and an even bigger slap to the face to Emily. You know the women he claimed was the love of his life. (I guess you can argue on a soap there are no loves of each others lives, but this is what we call endgame my friend.)

These are only a few things, I’m sure if I go back in time I can find way more out there. Nikolas believes he’s above it all and nothing to touch him. Yet he’ll go around and yell other people what to do, or rather what they should be doing. Not to mention judge them if they don’t listen to him. So no Nikolas isn’t the right guy for Elizabeth, doesn’t really mean any other guy she’s been with is really the right guy, but at least they are better then Nikolas. He choses not to own up to his mistakes, he just blames something else. (Maybe once or twice he has, but has he owned up to the part he played in the affair with Elizabeth?) … He also believes he should be the one to win Elizabeth love and affection. Boy you won’t win it, your earn it. She is not a prize to be won, she is a person and deserves respect and for you to work for it. Don’t even think about saying you are the better man, because just me you are not and you never will be.

So take your Greek Prince ass and go back to Greece.

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If I Hear It Again I'll Scream

Let me just say, Nikolas is a grown man. Meaning he should be responsible for his actions. All his actions. Sleeping with his brother fiance, ignoring his son, disrespecting his brother, ignoring his son. And I'm sure the list can go on. And you see my point from the few I posted already.

So i am going to say if I hear that Nikolas is only acting the way he is because of Emily's death I will scream. I am sorry but that is a load of BULL SHIT. I was a Nikolas and Emily fan, they were great. But the women died in 2007, it's now 2010 I'm sorry but these are his action now. He needs to own up to them and stop hiding behind Emily's death. (No disrespect to anyone who lost a loved one) But I know at least in soaps getting close to three years after the death of someone, you aren't still grieving. What life is that if you are still grieving over a loved one? Why not life your life? We all deal with love and lost, don't mean we have to grieve forever.

And Honestly the only reason I believe that Nikolas and Emily and Emily's death was brought up so much was because Natty came back. Other wise I'm sure Emily would have been and after lot. Like Courtney, like Georgie, Like Cooper, Jessie, Zander, Stan, and the list goes on. But no Emily death is mentioned every time to justify what Nikolas is doing and how he is acting. But you know what is needs to stop. Emily is dead she is gone and Nikolas, Liz, Lucky, no one can bring her back.

So can we stop using Emily's death to justify everything Nikolas does. because what's next Nikolas or someone else is going to say oh Nikolas is still grieving over Emily, Spencer that is why he can't play with you. But you'll make plenty of friends at boarding school. Be sure to write, but don't expected to get letters back or any kid of contact from Nikolas till he's done grieving over Emily.

I can see it now

Spencer: When will that be?
Someone: We don't know. No go with Alfred he'll make sure everything is settled
Spencer: Can I say goodbye to daddy
Someone: Sorry he's still grieving
*Spencer walks away all sad*

And perfect idea in my head, Spencer gets sent to boarding school, come back aged again. (Cause he's been aged, de-aged and aged some more) And he is out to hurt Nikolas for not paying attention to him enough. You know one of those TV kids with daddy issues. He hates his dad so much he wants nothing to do with him. If that doesn't happen I'll be surprised still Nikolas went to great length to get his son, and yet can't seem to spend any time with him. Or take him on trips. I'm sure if Rebecca wasn't around or Liz then Nikolas wouldn't have even taken Spencer to the Carnival.

Got off topic. Cause this was supposed to be about Using Emily's death to justify Nikolas and his actions and what he does.

Here is something, you know it's funny Nikolas got over Courtney's death in less then a year. He actually moved on with his life, and gained a son to love and care for. And Emily dies and Nikolas can't get over it at all. He rather die to be with her, then be with his son. He chooses to be with her twin sister because she looks just like her. And now trying to get with her best friend because he claims if anything she reminds him the most of his dead Emily. Elizabeth that is your cue to run and run fast.

Though it's funny for a little bit after Emily finally vanished Nikolas was moving on with his life in 2008. There was hope for him. And Nadine just made him light up. Rebecca, Emily's twin show up and bam he's back into Emily why'd you leave me, Emily I can't live with out you. Emily I'm going to screw you twin because she looks like you. Emily I'm going to screw your best friend and screw over my brother because she the closest thing I have to you. And I'm going to say I love you to her, but My I loves you me nothing less they are you to. Because I suck at life without you.

Just please let Nikolas own up to his action and let everyone let Nikolas own up to his actions. Because Emily isn't and excuse anymore. It's just a plot point. Just let Emily because what the rest of the Kid characters are, plot points. Because if they are going to be using Emily as more then they have to use Georgie too. Because Georgie is the daughter of Felicia and Frisco and shouldn't be dead to begin with. But that is a rant for another day. So just let Emily rest because I will scream if another person Justifies Nikolas's action with he is grieving over Emily. Because he's not. He Know full well WHAT THE FUCK HE IS DOING!!!

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